25 Amazing Beach Bachelorette Party Ideas in Cape May, New Jersey

Cape May, with its picturesque beaches and charming town, offers the perfect backdrop for an unforgettable bachelorette party. Whether you're looking for relaxation, adventure, or a bit of both, Cape May has something to offer every bride-to-be and her crew. Here are our top 25 recommendations when planning your bachelorette bash in this beautiful coastal town.

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Relaxing Beach Day


What better way to kick off a bachelorette weekend than with a day at the beach? Cape May's beautiful shores provide the perfect setting for sunbathing, swimming, and beach fun. Pack a picnic, bring along some beach chairs, and don't forget the sunscreen!


  • Relaxing on the Sand: Enjoy a laid-back day of lounging and catching up with friends.
  • Water Activities: Try paddle boarding or kayaking, for some excitement. Visit CapeMayKayaks.com to reserve and get pricing. 
  • Beach Games: Organize a friendly game of beach volleyball or Frisbee.


Wine Tasting Tour


Cape May is home to some fantastic wineries, making it the perfect place for a wine tasting tour. Spend an afternoon sampling local wines, learning about the winemaking process, and enjoying the scenic vineyard views. 

A few of our favorite Wineries: 


  • Cape May Winery & Vineyard: offers a variety of wines and beautiful grounds
  • Willow Creek Winery: Known for its delightful wines and picturesque setting.
  • Turdo Vineyards & Winery: A family-owned vineyard with a cozy atmosphere.


Spa and Wellness Day


A day of pampering is a great way to relax and bond. Cape May offers several luxurious spas where you can unwind with massages, facials, and other rejuvenating treatments.


  • Sea Spa at Congress Hall: Indulge in a range of treatments in a serene setting. 
  • Cape May Day Spa: Offers a variety of spa services to help you relax and recharge.


Historic Cape May Tours


Cape May is renowned for its Victorian architecture and rich history. A guided tour of the town's historic sites can be a delightful and educational experience for your group.


  • Cape May Lighthouse: Climb to the top for stunning views of the area.
  • Emlen Physick Estate: Tour this beautifully restored Victorian mansion.
  • Historic District Walking Tour: Stroll through the streets lined with charming Victorian homes.


Night Out on the Town


After a day of activities, it's time to hit the town and enjoy Cape May's vibrant nightlife. From delicious dining options to lively bars and clubs, there's plenty to keep the party going.


  • The Rusty Nail: A popular beach bar with live music and a fun atmosphere.
  • Carney’s: Offers live music and a lively dance floor.


Shopping! 


A visit to Cape May is not complete without shopping in the heart of America’s original seaside resort - The Washington Street Mall! The picturesque Mall, includes over 75 unique boutiques, shops, fine dining restaurants, bars, quick eats, activities, and services, which is closed to vehicular traffic. So stroll your way through and be sure to pick up a souvenir or two! Here are 3 of our favorites:


  • Queen May Jewelry: Peruse curated vintage and modern fine jewelry and handbags in this local jewelry shop!
  • Thread & Root Clothing Co: Find the perfect outfit for your weekend here! A mother and daughter owned and operated local shop!
  • Whale’s Tale: a landmark gift shop dedicated to delighting customers of all ages with unique gift items and souvenirs. 


Experiences in Cape May


  • POUR - Candle Bar & Chandlery! A must experience with your entire bridal party - a pour-your-own soy candle workshop! Make a reservation in advance by visiting shoresoapscapemay.com   Enjoy the beautiful workspace where you and all your besties partake in a self-guided DIY soy candle experience! Create your very own custom candle by selecting a vessel and a fragrance that matches your unique style. Choose from dozens of vessels and over 50 different scents (essential oil & fragrance oil)! A personalized candle to remember this great occasion! 


  • Bachelorette Cruises: BYOB and food upon the Cape May Cycle Cruise! A perfect way to experience the Cape May harbor and enjoy a beautiful sunset. Visit jerseyshorecruises.com  to book your cruise in advance. 


  • Whale and Dolphin Watching Cruises: Climb aboard the Cape May Whale Watcher and cruise around the island all while getting to see the Cape May Light House, Victorian homes and of course dolphins!! Visit capemaywhalewatcher.com  to book your cruise in advance. 


  • Mini-Golf Competition: Play a round of mini-golf and see which one of you can get par! The best 18-hole course is at Sunset Beach! Sunset Beach is also famous for the The USS Atlantis- Concrete Ship, now known as the Sunken Ship. Come see this historic ship that ran aground 1926, shop and win your round of mini-golf! 


Dining in Cape May


Making reservations for your group in advance is key to making sure you get to dine at these amazing restaurants! Here are a few of our favorites:



Cape May offers a variety of activities that can make any bachelorette party unforgettable. Whether you're soaking up the sun on the beach, sipping wine at a local vineyard, relaxing at a spa, exploring the town's historic charm, or dancing the night away, Cape May has something for everyone. Start planning your bachelorette party today and create memories that will last a lifetime.


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